What I did was

• Observe for new channels
• Check if it is StreamedMedia
• Check various properties to determine if its inbound
• If it is, call AddMembers directly on the Channel

See
https://garage.maemo.org/plugins/ggi...6e96643ac11c93

I think the issue for me was I was telling the Connection Manager to accept the call but the Client was out of the loop. I think we wold need to tell the client to tell the CM to accept the call and am unsure how to do that.