Hi Reflektorfalke!

You must replace your current obexd with one of the new ones.

First save your current one

mv /usr/lib/obex/obexd /usr/lib/obex/obexd.orig

Then move the new one in

mv <where your new version is> /usr/lib/obex/obexd

Make sure that it is excecutable

chmod a+x /usr/lib/obex/obexd

Then you must reboot your phone

reboot

You must be root to do this!

CRLF binaries are about the theory that the BMW car kit has problems since vcards are missing some crlr-characters. See post #161


Hope this helps!