The response I just got from Nokia was less then helpful, They told me to bring the phone back to the store I bought it from in Hongkong. Which is very unhelpful, because I didnt buy it from hongkong, I got it from Thailand. When I was in Hongkong and went to a big Nokia store there, near Times Square Mall, the nokia people had never even seen an N800 before.
I was in SE for a few months, but I wont be back there for atleast a year.

So Nokia support is complete garbage. I hadn't installed or flashed or done anything weird to my n800, it just stopped working, no lights at all turn on when I hold the power down, and nokia will not help at all.