damn cant get it to work seems related to ssh it just displays the screen at my mediabox screen instead of my N900. I dont know if its related to X11Foreard or what the problem is... hmm just came up with a new idea why do I need to login via localhost/ssh would it be possible to setup a TCP link instead vlc://workstationip:1234 hmm need to check
netstat -platn
cvlc http://<IPaddressOfComputer>:1234/stream