@OP

I have deliberately chosen to defend some points you made and I did so by stating that I prefer people who speak their mind bluntly but fair above people that do the opposite. There is, however one thing attached to that approach: chances are people will speak to you as bluntly as they rated your opening post.

You probably know the saying about heat and kitchens and staying out of kitchens if you can´t stand the heat. Ignore the people you don´t like and get on with the things that are important. Please.