The hcidump does not show any phonebook transfer request (besides the low level AT commands that are not supported). think you did not wait long enough or yo may need to initiate a phonebook transfer from the clarion itself,

PS: I noticed obexd is started without debugging, so we do not see much from the syslog either.

To enable obexd debugs you should add the --debug option in the
/usr/share/dbus-1/services/obexd2.service file (for example just before the --nodaemon option).
(guess this info needs to be added to the wiki)