yes, it was "--debug" ;-)

hmm..if in the output of ps | grep obex is standing
/usr/lib/obex/obexd --debug --nodaemon--....
then it is restarted, is that right?
i switched off my mobil and started it again...
or what else should i do to restart obexd?

the stptool i will try tomorrow ;-)

thank you very much for now...

greetz drnorton