You're entire post is responded to in this statement. Here is not the place for Nokia or Maemo complaints to be heard by Nokia.
"Other concerns are Maemo's. Problem is, if Nokia doesn't listen, where do you go to? Exactly... here."
I don't know how many times that has to be repeated before people stop trying to use it as an excuse.
"what puddle? Maybe what someone see as puddle is not puddle to all human beigns. Things arent surely as clear as some people seem to think. There is tons of review sites where people with mission or perhaps with real insight can warn people about puddle. This is not place for it."
You get to continue feeling like they screwed you.. there is nothing we can do about it.
I am, mostly, a part of you guys. I hate the decisions Nokia has made regarding the N900. I hate the fact that we won't be getting an official upgrade or an official support for users to get MeeGo on the N900.