Not that I'm saying you SHOULD but...if you accept the flaws and direct this feeling/disappointment toward a positive outlook the phone/computer/tablet or whatever we should call it is a great device and it does things that previously I have been able to do (eg Remote Desktop+VNC, SSH, web browsing) - all much better than in the past on any other handsets I've looked at (Symbian used to be the only one I could find that 'could' do these but clunky/badly).

People that adore the iPhone do so because it is a superb device...for the right user. I love my wifes one. I knew she would get on with it which is why I bought her the iPhone and an N900 for myself. Though she wasn't initially happy with the keyboard/feel for texting but has adjusted to it coming from a Nokia 5800. I on the other hand miss an onscreen keyboard/T9 but love the QWERTY keyboard, especially for Remote Desktop/SSH functionality - I would settle for the (what She & I consider) a BAD onscreen keyboard from the iPhone (yes I know the N900 has apps for onscreen keys, but I don't like them and would rather go without).

As for alternatives....not currently a 'like for like' from another OS or manufacturer. The HTC Desire is halfway between the iPhone and N900 in my opinion.

I look forward to MeeGo as a new all encompassing OS. I hope to god Nokia take all their knowledge from Maemo + N900 and make a great device (with a decent battery) and if we then see MeeGo on TVs and in-car I'll certainly guy those products too as integration and cross-functionality is a huge plus.

In summary...
- Alternative? No. Which is a good thing presently.
- Going forward. Hopefully MeeGo (or its concept at least) and either a Nokia or any other handset maker that gets it right.