Yeah, I like to see tempers up!
Welcome to community, I'm rather a new N900 owner, but I think I can confirm the said above... I love it, have never hated it, but it can turn annoying sometimes, so you must be patient, conscious of what it 'is' and get used to some trick-ish things related with day-to-day usage...
Issues, or questions? Consider first looking for related topics and threads in the forum, and you may find it already solved/asked, or find out it has simply no solution at the moment/never... je...
Welcome again!