ok,
Simply Uninstalling pc-suite ( did not need to delete reg keys )
reboot pc and rebooted phone,
connected and synced messages instantly !
3070 messages synced in less than a minute.

That kicks the *beep* out of nokia lifeblog (time wise)
But man would I like to see N900 supported on lifeblog, a FAR superior app

Hope this helps all Win 7 peeps out there !