it works now, ill post the guides i used below.

Phone works (can recieve call) but there is no sound in or out. you cannot send SMS but you can recieve. With the market fix you can download all the cool apps like spotify mobile. It is also possible to enable 3g internet if you know your carriers APN settings.

Important notes to remember:

-Disable PIN code request in maemo if you want to use your cellular network.
-When making the partition the guide says to make it a 4gb partition but i recalculated to make it a 2gb (as some more original nitdroid guides said it needs to be 2gb)
-keep a SD card inserted. This fixed a problem for me where the NITDroid boot could not load the ext3 module (its own partition)
-Be carefull, you will be reformatting your /home/user/MyDocs so you will lose all your files in there if you dont copy them over to your computer. And if you are unlucky you can get the problem described in the first post.

The guides i used (combined some from the normal nitdroid install to get certain packages like "wget" if you dont have them)

http://nitdroid.com/index.php?title=...TDroid_project
http://wiki.nitdroid.com/index.php?t...:_Partitioning
http://forum.nitdroid.com/index.php?topic=538.0
http://forum.nitdroid.com/index.php?topic=464.0
Market fix