Ok, well, as I told zero it looks like I screwed up adding this to my 1and1 account. They don't look like they'll host jabber under that plan (I misunderstood the requirements). But at least I'm getting the domain registered and parked.

So, while I'm researching hosts, is anyone up for subletting their current hosts? I'd be more than willing to help you with cost if you could add 2 domains.

Either way, here's who I've found so far besides Dreamhost:

http://www.westhost.com/package-comp...ml?cid=goo-vps (not sure if they allow jabber)

http://itonix.com/internet/hosting.html (so far one of the best options)

http://www.vpslink.com/vps-hosting/ (they do allow jabber, and even use it themselves)