First of all i am sorry for posting it in wrong place but i tried a lot and searched a lot but could not get it done.
I want to connect my laptop and n900 and they both are on the same network.
Laptop: 192.168.1.2
N900 : 192.168.1.3

i can ping from both the devices and it works but i cant access the files and folders from either ways.

also when i open the media player in N900 i see my Laptop name in the bottom left side of the screen and when i click on it it keeps on searching and nothing happens.

i want to use certain applications that can control my laptop from mobile .
Please please help me