Okay fixed my headset issue. You are all going to have to forgive me for how silly I was. I tried listening to music with the bundled headset And I still could not come out of speaker mode. So I tried using my normal headphones to listen to music and it worked fine. So I decided the problem had to be with the bundled Samsung headphones. However I decided to give it one last try and pushed them in as far as they could possibly go without either me, the headset or the Tab breaking and this time it worked. So there it is going-for anyone having problems with the headset what is required is for you to push it in more than you would need to with other headphones.

Have to say the quality of the audio coming from the headset is mighty mighty impressive. Not sure if the credit goes to the Tab, the Samsung headphones or both but there is certainly no need to purchase expensive headphones to listen to music on the Tab. You may of course need Bluetooth headset to make and receive calls without plugging in wires.