MeeGo is an open-source project, Nokia is a consumer (and supporter) of MeeGo, but Nokia != MeeGo.

If you don't like how it's going you should join it and add your expertise. Join the MeeGo-Community mailing list and give them your ideas about what they should do differently. You don't have to be a programmer.

If you're only concerned personally as an end-user, then I would say you should just forget that MeeGo exists for now. When the day comes that it's ready as the primary OS on your device, I guarantee the news will be all over the internet.