hey iv looked around in different threads and i havnt found anything that has helped me. and from what it seems, my error might be a little different (?)

okay, so with my conversations after i send a message, it will say that the message is pending.. so i sit there and wait til it sends.. it never sends...
HOWEVER the recipient has already received my sms...

and if i close the conversations and reopen it, i lose everything i just sent and can only see the recipients msgs.. however its no longer in chronological order..


how can i fix this?

it would be awesome to see that my sms have been sent again.. and still have my msgs there when i re-open conversations AND have everything in chronological order..


any help please?