I agree. There is a long-pending enhancement to allow a default profile to be selected for any country.
Unfortunately, no. This depends on maemo's Mission Control service. Until MC is updated to support latest telepathy specification, I can't do anything.
dbus-send --system --dest=com.nokia.csd /com/nokia/csd/call com.nokia.csd.Call.StartDTMF byte:48 dbus-send --system --dest=com.nokia.csd /com/nokia/csd/call com.nokia.csd.Call.StopDTMF etc.
I didn't understand this one. Can you give an example?