Not picking on you... however even if the iPhone 5 had all of the above, people would still nitpick against it because of the closed ecosystem or something petty... like Steve Jobs.
Your needs are different than quite a few other folks (read: the people that bought the iPhone in the past)
But at the same time, it's damn nice that you have a set of likes/dislikes that is quite specific. Let's see if any phone/gadget delivers everything as you've described in full, final and supported ways from whomever - be it Nokia, Apple, Samsung or whomever.