Sorry I did not read the last 71 pages. I just installed smscon based on a success story in another thread. So, i just set it, configured and tested. Awesome app! A few suggestions though,
The first tone/vibration on sms receipt may be unavoidable but can't the notification be hidden from the phone? This way the theif can't see the commands that we send to the phone?
Secondly, I use phone speaker switch and on call command, the phone goes onto speaker mode and the theif can easily get notified. Can we configure smscon to disable smscon if required?

BTW, if these have been answered before, I am sorry. If so, i am willing to go back and read through the posts.