Ok so I finally gave in to "trying to update to 1.3".. I tried doing this by OVI..I did all this thru usb..while updating, ovi says update install failed or whatever! mind you I was not in my room while all this was happening..I see my phone stuck on NOKIA screen, so I decided to unplug the usb from it, turned on the phone and it only brings me to NOKIA screen while blue led light is on then shuts off after about 10-15sec. I keep doing this and it just wont turn on anymore..pleeeeeease help

Refer to firmware flash wiki:

http://wiki.maemo.org/Updating_the_firmware#Windows