So the feature missing is the auto-pause of music/video when one receives a call..music seems to continue and does not stop. I mean any phone with the N moniker should be able to do something as basic as this..sometime i have a long convo and I have missed 2 songs. Has anyone been able to fix this or is this a feature request...

yeah i noticed that as well.. it really is annoying
furthermore, when i get a message while listening to music, it doesn't pause for a sec like it used to do on the n97, rather it just plays a beep which i barely make out as the music is playing
really hope this gets fixed in the next FW update

Have you lot filed a bug for this?

Well i tried filing a bug for something a while back when i first got my n900 but didn't know where to go
mind pointing me in the right direction?

update: alright, i filed the bug
https://bugs.maemo.org/show_bug.cgi?id=7415

thanks A77ALiSTiC, i was meaning to do this myself, although i dont mind a small beep while the music is playing and a sms/im is received. .