complaining about "a huge influx of new members with no obvious bent toward community or contribution" (yes, that was you!) don't help make newcomers feel welcome
I know that in the same post I quoted you also praised RevdKathy for the contribution that she has made and said you'd welcome more users like her - but the tone made it sound like you're judging us all waiting to see which category we fall into instead of encouraging people into the more helpful category.