Get another one while you can, if you encounter the same problems the problem lies between the chair and the N900!
Are you sure you haven't enabled extras testing or devel because if you have tried BlessN900 you have them enabled. If you have enabled either of them maybe something from there is causing your broblems.
sounds like you have something installed that causes this, if not then have you transferred any media to it that may contain a virus although its linux rather than windows or mac a virus targeted at them can cause random problems for you so either scan all your media that you transferred and all the emails or remove all downloads that aren't from the stock catalogs. if it is down to a virus you got then you'll have to re flash, make sure you use upto date os and emmc
Do you use a SIM?
You must be very unlucky if this happened to you twice. After flashing are you reinstalling your previous software? Maybe one of them is causing this. And try booting without a microsd. Try flashing with different versions of PR 1.2 (global, UK etc)