Mmmmm ... i have done the complete process descrideb by dj_steve ... but this time i've used the previous release, the which one witout 3d acceleration (like described in the first post)... than i've replaced the older version with the new one with the procedure of the second post...

Than i've booted without turn the phone like sepehrsfmech adviced me...
And finally it works

I don't know if it's because i don't turn the phone (but why should this make the phone crash? o.o ) or because i've used the older version and than i've updated... but work tnx to all

But... is that normal that nitdroid is full of lag? initial settings made me give birth because of waiting -.-